So the last of the background info..I hope..

Okay so we meet as you all know. And I got back home. He worked and we talked to the phone as much as ever. After meeting me, he made his final decision to make some money and then come up and live with or by me and get a job up here and go to college. It was all so fast but yet it felt right..and I was terrified and he was weirdly calm about it. I mean HELLO, we only had met once! His parents and him did not see eye to eye..there was a couple of fight...and then a "blow out." He called me and made his decision to move up by me right that second! I freaked but I supported him. He actually does not know I freaked..so when he reads this he will finally know. So less then a month after he met, he hopped a bus (his car is not ready to be driven to my place) and with barely any money saved like he was supposed to do...he decided to move in with me. OMG! All I could do was pretend he was just coming for a visit otherwise I would have freaked on him and made him feel worse after wanting to leave his parents house. It sounds dramatic and like he was running away as if he was in high school. But imagine being 29 and having to live with your parents under their rules and way of life because you had to move in there b.c you got laid off. BLAH. He moved in on (hmm what date was it..) I believe 3/5/09. It was a weird adjustment but like I said in the beginning I pretended it was just a fun visit. 3/9 was his 30th birthday and I was not allowed to do anything for it. But I made dinner, bought a cake and card, and rented a movie. It was a nice night in. He looked for a job, any job. And got a job at a sub place. It lasted less then a week...because supposedly they had found somone else better for the job even though there was no else training and they called him in for extra shifts before he was even done training so he must have been doing somethin good..i think the owners had a family member or friend that needed a job..but there's nothing to be done.